The newlyweds spent their honeymoon cruising along California's coast. The Obamas' two daughters, Malia and Sasha, were born in and As the Obamas' public profiles soared due to Barack's political career, Michelle told the Washington Post that she worried the impact the scrutiny was having on their daughters.
After Barack became president, Michelle recalled sending them off to their DC elementary school with Secret Service agents, and thinking, "What on Earth am I doing to these babies?
The Obamas also had to work through "difficult times" in Illinois, as Barack "spent long days away from home playing state politics," the Guardian reported. As a result, in some ways, the Obamas' marriage and family life became less hectic in the White House compared to the "years of tough campaigning," the Guardian reported.
In the White House, the couple often found time in the mornings and evenings to talk and watch shows, and typically ate meals with one another. In an interview with Extra, Michelle said friendship was just as crucial as love in any marriage. Michelle has also said that it helped that the family doesn't take themselves "too seriously. And, despite being the leader of the free world, Barack made sure to remember things like date nights and anniversaries, Glamour reported.
Whether or not you and your partner end up in the White House, Michelle said that married couples shouldn't ever expect relationships to come easy. Since Obama's presidential term ended, the couple has spent time campaigning for the non-profit Obama Foundation, which supports a scholarship program and is overseeing the creation of his presidential library.
The couple and their daughters also went on a trip around the world, kitesurfing, relaxing on the beach, and yachting with Sir Richard Branson. But whether they're campaigning for the presidency or unwinding together, the Obamas always stick to the same philosophy on marriage.
Loading Something is loading. Email address. So that forced me to work and think, and make decisions like leaving law. Recalling a transitional period in their relationship, Mrs. Obama also some of the concessions she made on behalf of their growing family. If I was going to have an equal voice with this very opinionated man, I had to get myself up.
I had to set myself off to a place where I was confident that I was going to be his equal," she says. That really made it harder. Something had to give and it was my aspirations and dreams. I made that concession, not because he said, 'You have to quit your job.
So I have to tone down my aspirations. I have to dial it back,' " she adds. In the Netflix documentary, Mrs. Obama is also open about her and her husband's marriage counseling, a topic she also addressed in her memoir and book tour. Speaking to moderator Gayle King , Mrs.
Obama admits she initially thought counseling would "fix" the former president. It is hard blending two lives together," she explains, later adding, "And in my view, I took Barack to marital counseling so that they would fix him. Has there ever been a cuter couple than Michelle and Barack Obama?
The charming couple enamored the world before ever setting foot in the White House , and continues to do so years after the end of Barack's presidency. Together with their daughters, Sasha and Malia, the former first family is still beloved, and their life seems like the stuff of fairy tales.
Things have not always been easy for the Obamas, though. Michelle and Barack have an epic love story that spans decades, but, like any other couple, have faced their fair share of hardships.
In many ways, their challenges were even greater because they have been in the public eye for so long. Yet, through it all, they manage to stay happy and in love.
What's their secret? To figure that out, we need to take a closer look at their relationship. Here's everything you didn't know about the Obamas' marriage. While they were drawn to each other from the first time they met, Michelle was reluctant to date Barack.
She initially dismissed him as a "good-looking, smooth-talking guy. Barack told Oprah that he was "struck by how tall and beautiful [Michelle] was," saying that working with her was "the luckiest break of my life. Michelle took Barack up on the date, but didn't make him leave his job. Even after she began dating Barack, Michelle wasn't sure right away that it would work out. Growing up in a family that lived paycheck to paycheck, Michelle worried that a life with Barack might be unstable.
Still, Michelle was drawn to Barack. On a date at a Chicago church, where Barack was meeting with people he had worked with as a community organizer, Michelle saw his passion for helping poor African-Americans.
Impossible as it is to imagine, the Obamas' celebrated marriage might not have happened if Michelle had been a little less persistent. At the end of the summer of , Michelle continued to work in Chicago while Barack returned to Harvard to finish law school. According to The Washington Post , Barack was dedicated to the relationship and madly in love with Michelle, but he didn't believe that marriage was necessary, calling it a "meaningless institution.
Michelle kept turning up the pressure, though, wanting a decades-long marriage like her parents who, at the time, had been going strong for 30 years. In , Barack finally surprised Michelle with a ring after she began to talk once again of marriage, telling her "That kind of shuts you up, doesn't it? The two were married the following year, taking their commitment to the next level.
Michelle has always been Barack's biggest cheerleader, but she confessed that she didn't think he had a hope of winning the presidential election.
She had no real wish to be the first lady and supported her husband's run "because deep down I was like there's no way he's going to win," she said during her book tour for Becoming via the New York Post. Far from not having faith in her husband's leadership skills, Michelle just didn't think America would elect a black president, "let alone a black president named Barack Hussein Obama.
In spite of her reluctance to take on the pressures of the White House, Michelle threw herself wholeheartedly into her husband's campaign.
She insisted on playing an active role. I just need you to tell me what to do. Life wasn't all smooth sailing for Michelle and Barack once they were wed. In a interview with Good Morning America , Michelle said that she had suffered a miscarriage 20 years earlier.
The loss was a heavy emotional blow. Michelle underwent fertility treatments to conceive Malia and Sasha, and the process was another ordeal. Michelle had to inject herself daily for several weeks.
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